When something comes to an end, any chapter of life it is normal to feel sad, lost, even if that chapter of life was not perfect, was not all cotton candy and sweetness, it was still a chunk of our lives, so we are bound to feel wounded, lost etc…, even like somehow we failed. It is hard to let go of elements of that chapter or that book that was perhaps a good chunk of our lives, whether a situation, relationship, a mindset.
However, one should think of the possibilities that await. Now one has a whole blank canvass to create a whole new painting series of painting, a whole ream of paper to write a whole new novel on etc…. You can create a new landscape, scale new mountains, scale mountains you were afraid to scale before, maybe even with the person you truly want to scale those mountains with. The possibilities are truly wonderful and bountiful if you have the faith, and can look at it as a new adventure, not as a failure or a loss. That’s not to say we don’t look to learn from that situation, and improve how we handle the present and future situations etc…, of course we do. However, if all we focus on is the loss, the mistakes etc.., we will become paralyzed and that will make it impossible to take hold of any light, any new adventure we could create. Life is one amazing, sometimes unpredictable adventure, which we do need to journey on with wisdom, hopefully also with creativity, true love, agape love and so much more that helps us be authentic to us, to God, to fulfill our true path which God has put in our heart via the gifts and talents given us, and our roots, our heritage always with wisdom.
Remember, even when there is an ending, there is also a beginning and you now have the chance to start on a most amazing adventure, on a blank canvass, fulfill your dreams, potential, maybe even get back to your roots, and connect to true love.
Namaste, Shalom and Amen