http://www.ncregister.com/blog/msgr-pope/8-modern-errors-every-catholic-should-know-and-avoid

When you have kids, or if you are a teacher, life coach or anything in that realm, and you care, you know enough to set boundaries, you have to if you care, truly care.  If you care about yourself and the other person/s you have to know when to issue tough love, how to issue it etc…If you don’t you risk chaos etc…It’s like a doctor who has to care enough that though a procedure may cause pain that moment, it has to be done, so the patient will then be okay for the long term.  The Church has to have that same approach, realize that if they love the people, then they must tell it like it is.  Government must not interfere with the truth, so long as there is never any call to or incitement to violence.

Amen