Life is about discernment, that’s 50 percent or more of the key of it all.  One of the keys is that you can’t change others only yourself.  Others might be changed by your words or how you live later on, but you can only change you and your life, your circumstances from negative and toxic to not so.    With your kids, parenting, you can only change how your relate to your kids, can’t change them.  Same with friendships, you can only speak the truth of the Spirit and if the person then chooses to not hear and to walk away from the friendship, that is their choice, leave it, in your soul, wish them well and continue on with your path. 

Amen