Each of these situations, being human as we are, bring pain, anger etc… However, life is a journey of learning, the most effective kind of learning comes from experience, so in life we will encounter situations that are less than ideal, for us anyway, but there is something for us to learn in each of them.  The trick is from an emotional-spiritual point of view understanding what that is and then applying that lesson well into the future.  I will be doing a short meditation to help you with this and also a series of meditations and presentations entitles Knowing Yourself.  After all, if God decided you should be created, I think taking the time to know yourself is not a bad idea, right.