What Kind of Relationship?

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Trinity

I thought about what kind of relationship I want in terms of my life partner again and it has to have key components:

  • Strong spiritual component
  • Make our union a strong priority, making it flow
  • Be each other’s cheerleader, even as we are honest with each other
  • Have an artistic component
  • Be each other’s friend, have that foundation
  • Make mutual effort to be part of each other’s day to day life
  • Have a solid commitment, also be free spirited

It’s important we have a strong spiritual base of foundation, even if it’s meditating to classical music together daily, some kind of spiritual base and having similar principles in terms of a worldview. These key ingredients are important if I am going to have a partnership in life and maybe that person I can have this kind of relationship with has not shown up yet.  Of course there has to be lots of great chemistry and electricity, that would be super great.  I hope that soon, very soon, God can bless me with this union, relationship that starts off with a strong friendship, our making time for each other and then it moves to the next level organically.  That is one of my prayers.   I know I am 51 and I could lose all hope, but I refuse to and believe there is such a relationship for me, just a matter of my praying and meditating to draw it to me, to being open to it.

Amen

 


kappello

Born in New Jersey, August 1965, this Italian-American has always had a great interest in music, particularly the Oldies, Country and Ethnic music, including Irish. For over 10 years Ms. Appello passionately taught ESL to students of varying ages. Grounded if her faith and spirituality, Katherine endured a range of issues, including a great deal of pain, which was finally diagnosed to be associated with Fibromyalgia. The essence and the power of music, of words, allow Katherine to overcome these struggles each and every time. We are all blessed to have Katherine’s strength, wisdom, and words to write “Pray For Me Tonight’