Whether it’s online or offline, you get a sense of things when it comes to people, and if you work to develop discernment or have people around you that have that gift, but mainly your own gut when it’s not fear driven, but really contemplative prayer and meditative in nature will guide.
Some people you have an instant connection, which is great and you find them easy to talk to right away, feel at ease, all of that stuff. Great, as long as you are sure who you are talking to. There are some connections that are immediate connection et… as well, but even though both or a few of these connections have that ease, there is still discernment required. Sometimes after a few conversations with each or several of the parties, you just know. You have a Holy Spirit sense which one really has the maturity, common goals etc.., potential to be more than just a friend and which one either because of a certain immaturity you sense, for whatever reasons, that Holy Spirit intuition which person is the just friends one. You have to honor that, honor that sacred intuition. You have above all honor your own soul, own spirit about who to have in your life and in what way they fit into your life. That’s not always easy to do, but with faith, discernment, meditation, prayer, maturity, common sense, it can be done. That is where I am now along with planning clearly my journey in life 2018-2020, laying the foundations. It’s a great thing, working towards achieving your dreams, and getting there when you do. I pray that the vocational goals, goal of creating ministry through coaching and the arts combined, as well finally joining my life to a true soulmate are achieved. All I can do is my best, give of my best, of my best self. All any of us can do.
Shalom and Amen