We often seek others to make us whole, to make us feel whole, but that is not another person’s job, no human can really make you whole, or healed. Another can be a catalyst, a prompt for that journey, but they can not heal you. Only we can heal us through accepting what is, was, needs changing and all that. If we keep pushing someone to be the magic cure for us to be whole etc… eventually we will crush them under that weight. We need to figure out how to be whole within our own journey in life, not look to another to be a magic formula to make us whole or anything like that. An authentic, cultivated spiritual life can be of great help along the journey, so I love listening for example to this youtube channel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NDeB9zIoE_s&t=1463s and others like this to connect to the spiritutal in life. I hope that we all come to wholeness within ourselves as Sons and Daughters of the Most High, The Creator of this amazing universe.