Those We Love Most…

They say that those whom we love and who love us sometimes hurt us the most and reject us, sometimes it’s circumstances, other times, it’s that they are unable to reconcile who they are or their world with our gifts, talents, worldview etc..We spin our wheels, bang our heads against the wall, Read more…

Communication Style #4

The director likes to see results, very results oriented, meat and potatoes guy, streak of independence, and is very direct, also self-disciplined, drawn towards power and authority in general.  They are not guided by emotions, more by thought, unlike the initiator who is guided more by gut instinct and emotions. Read more…

Truth Is..(smiling)

The return of someone still dear to my heart can go sweet or sour and I play a part in that, which direction it goes.  Granted, we hurt other, were not ready for the intensity of the feelings, at least I wasn’t, still carrying too much junk from my childhood.  Read more…

Communication Styles 2 and 3

Initiator and Analzer, what of these two?  The initiator relies  a lot on intuition, on that gut feeling, divine inspiration and such, is animated, quite expressive, very sensitive, and a seeker, spiritual and on different levels and can be quite innovative.  Generally, they will create a congenial work environment, wanting Read more…

Communcation Styles

Let’s start with the Relator, what’s the deal with this communicator, this style of communicator?  This person can relate to pretty much anyone, harmony is crucial to them, so they are friendly, they will engage you and listen, offering an empathy and sympathy.  Often this type of communicator will even Read more…

Lush Gardens and Life

I love this picture, image, garden image.  Why? It is a picture of life, that’s why.  The path in the middle is that core self that really does know who we are, where are true joy is, who our true love is, that love that stands the test of time, Read more…

Expectation Knocking

Expectations, here you are again, knocking at my door, Knocking ever so gently, yet ever so powerfully. Expectations, here you are again, knocking at my door, Yet, as I have grown and learned that expectations can be wonderful gifts, If embraced in proper measure, without extremes, without Disneyland and rose Read more…