Not Everything is Permanent

Human beings often want the forever, things to stay the same, life to stay the same, for relationships, even friendships to always be in perfect flow, communications etc.., and it is a noble wish, but not very realistic.  Relationships like the weather have seasons, some relationships rarely go though the Read more…

Temporary and Permanent

People will come into our lives through the virtual world and there a warm and sincere connection.  We  assume this will last forever this friendship, since some deep stuff has been shared about life, what’s going on.  I thought certain friendships both begun offline a lifetime ago and online fit Read more…

During the Toughest Times

Often when people leave our lives, friendships end, relationships end, especially during or right after a rough time, it can be hurtful, but rather that focus on who isn’t around, best to focus on who is around, who sticks with us through thick and thin.  We should be committed to Read more…

Image of Trees

        In my meditation last night a particular connection came to mind and I had the image of trees come to me and this poem. As I thought of this connection, I suddenly had a thought, trees, Trees first in full bloom, full of life, leaves and Read more…

No Going Back

A friendship that had been for a long time, had had a rough patch or two, recently something shifted, not sure what, but something definitely shifted.  When relationships, friendships, connections, circumstances shift, we can get really angry, we can force fix it, push to try and get it to where Read more…

Says More About Them

As I was meditating this morning and again was brought back to the pattern of that person of suddenly turning cold and pulling a sort of temper tantrum, going into a corner and sulking I realized life really is like a party in terms of people and relationships.  We invite Read more…

A Golden Chain

My friends and I are not of the same worldview, or political view and things can pretty heated when certain subjects are touched upon, and one can think, oh this is it, that friendship is done for after this heated debate.  One could think that, but a friendship that has Read more…

Online Potentials and Perils

Like many things in life the Internet has its’ yin and yang, potentials, and perils so to speak. Instagram is an example of that.  I have had several gentleman follow me after posting videos to promote my blog, my music.  Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind interacting with fans Read more…

What Makes Friendship Unbreakable

Friendship, a beautiful thing.  There are friendships that last a lifetime.  What makes that possible.  I have been thinking about that, about what would make a friendship that is really deep and would last a life time.  First thing I think is a similar worldview, shared values, some synchronicity and Read more…