I Choose To

For the longest time, I had said I had no interest in the dating game, that it was something I had no interest in, the game playing and then that the fibromyalgia was something no one was going to want to take on, so why bother to seek a relationship?  Of course, there is the […]

Emotional Responses in Healing

Healing is a great way to alter emotional responses such as anger, resentment or other negative responses to persons or even situations.  The human experience is like a garden, had a range of fauna etc.., including weeds that can strangle the good flowers etc…Why is that and what do emotions have to do with anything?. Our […]

Emotions in Healing the Hidden Self

The songs of past and present  talk about emotions because emotions are widely recognized as being a major part of many problems we face. Thing is people that lack control of managing their emotions is a common denominator and part of the problem. The fact is, emotions are part of the problem, and however, the emotions […]

What is the Shadow Self in Christian Faith Terms

  From a psychology standpoint, this is our shadow self.  From a faith and biblical standpoint, it is the conscience,  which tells us should tell us, from an objective morals standpoint the choice that is within healthy to us and all ethical, moral parameters.  When we don’t operate from that object morals standpoint, we end […]

Desires in Healing the Hidden Self

  The perceptive and the aware parts of ourselves are  what we refer to as the whole self. The whole self is our personality, which represents our actions, emotions and feelings. It is our nature that makes up our character and becomes our identity once developed.  Part of what I realize now has been a stumbling block […]

Where Do We Feel It?

Our bodies are in every fiber living breathing entities and also sponges.  We may for example think we have “gotten over” stuff, or accepted situations etc… We may think ourselves superman or superwoman, untouchable by what others say or do.  That is not the case. Every aspect of the self is a sponge that absorbs situations actions, […]

Community and Belonging

I have been searching for where I belong for the longest time.  I knew my faith in Christ, in Biblical truth was unshakable. However, what I didn’t realize is that before I could find where I belonged in the world, in the community of faith, I had to accept myself.  I had to accept myself […]

Shadow Self and Self Esteem

The psychologist, Carl Jung, described hidden part of our psyche as “the shadow”. It’s the part that sometimes scares us with the things we don’t know, or don’t want to know about ourselves. It is essentially our unconscious mind telling us what it wants. Sometimes it comes in dreams, other times and an inundation of […]

Conceptions in Healing the Hidden Self

  Developing our concepts helps us with conjuring up new ideas and perceptions that lead  to healing the hidden self. Through theorizing, shuffling, and developing new ideas we can change our view on life by changing our main beliefs and perceptions. We must  steadily navigate the healing process by re-training ourselves selves to think positive […]

Broken Pieces

For the longest time I had been starting my day with unforgiveness towards myself for errors in judgement and allowing fear and childhood baggage having kept me from pursing my true path as an arts minister.  I didn’t really see each day as a new day to start my life, to get on the right […]