Personality Type -8

The Reformer, Idealist, we encounter them in the youth of today and even yesterday, until the reality of life sinks in.  The Reformer, Idealist wants to be in the right, to strive to move higher and higher in their ideals, to  improve everything.  These improvements, they need to consistent with their ideals, Read more…

Personality Types 6 and 7

Now we come to the Challenger, who can also be a Maverick and the Peacemaker, Referee.  The Challenger is a dominant force, when they walk in your can feel the confidence, power, dominance of their presence.  They are pretty decisive, not a lot of swaying, self doubt, pretty decisive.  They Read more…

Personality Types 5 & 6

The Loyalist, also the defender and buddy is quite reliable, loyal to ideas, system, people, and will go down with the ship.  At the same time, they also question these same ideas, systems etc.. they are loyal to, feel it is perfectly reasonable to do so, even while being quite Read more…

Personality Types 3 and 4

The individualist personality type, also known as aristocrat and bohemian, sensitive and introverted, yet at the same time very dramatic, expressive in regards to safeguarding that individualism, in forging their own path.  They can also be self absorbed, and temperamental, artists are often labeled as individualists.  They  may have trouble Read more…

Personality Types 1 & 2

Understanding a person’s personality, communication styles can be of great help in navigating a relationship, even with one’s child, with parents.  Let’s discuss the first two, the Helper, very always ready to be of service, great host or hostess, and the Achiever, great charmer and professional. The Helper, when he Read more…

What Was Up In the Garden?

The whole Garden of Eden, Fall thing, people debate is it literal, metaphorical, what’s it all about?  When I saw this Pin, it reflected what I thought it represented. Knowledge, understanding, discernment is key to ethics, integrity, right knowledge, influences etc… are all key to our understanding of constructive or Read more…

I Choose..

Life is all about choices, healthy, unhealthy, constructive, destructive etc.., all about choices.  I had to make choices about what I was going to do to move forward with my life, to have a life.  I decided to be proactive and do something positive.  I enrolled in online programs for Read more…

Healthy Boundaries 11 & 12

Healthy Boundaries 11 & 12 I am going to be recording some of the material and presenting it in this format.  For previews of topics to come, please check my twitter and instagram: kappellocoaching I look forward to going more in-depth on the issue of boundaries and also delving into Read more…

Greatest Freedom

John McCain had said that there were times in his captivity during his time as a soldier when he was happy, those in camps during the Holocaust have said they had peace and we know of stories of those who found ways to celebrate Shabbat and the High Holy Days.  Read more…