Do You Understand?

When people say unconditional love, what the heck does that mean?  Does it mean we have to agree on everything, all the time, that one partner denies all they are to totally pump up the other, with nothing reciprocating?  No, and that is the lesson I was hard headed, have Read more…

Maybe Love

We are made to seek community, companionship, love, acceptance etc… and we want that special something in our lives, that lifetime safety net of love etc.. that will be there through thick and thin. I suppose I forgot to do something really important, create community, build moments of saying to Read more…

What Kind of Spark?

I have thought about this spark thing and what kind of spark makes for life partnership?  Is a life partner spark that one that kind that of someone who makes you jump out of your skin, someone with whom you have everything in common with?  Hmm, well, I think it’s Read more…

Stronger Couples, What Gives?

I am a big fan of the show “Everybody Loves Raymond” and in a way Frank and Marie Barrone, well they represent the real and imperfect relationship.  They fought, they disagreed, but they kept it real, no phoney baloney there.  Not saying to be like that, but I am saying Read more…

Helping Others to Accept Christ

Believe it or not, Christ Consciousness, Christ embrace is not easy for everyone. Often times when we think we want to help, we are disliked by other people. You may wish to help your friends, family or closest partner to awaken to beautiful settings in life. You may want your Read more…