Which Rose Should I Send?

Sometimes, relationships are are easy to read, sometimes they are not.  I came a across a lovely poem and from that came this poem, enjoy.


I found myself thinking of someone from the past today and I realized we were “almost”.  We almost had a friendship, but due to whatever it never really got off the ground.   We almost had a relationship, but stuff and baggage got in the way.  We spent time together but were never really together.  We […]

Not Everything is Permanent

Human beings often want the forever, things to stay the same, life to stay the same, for relationships, even friendships to always be in perfect flow, communications etc.., and it is a noble wish, but not very realistic.  Relationships like the weather have seasons, some relationships rarely go though the stormy season or even the […]

Have to Let Go

We all have that one person that though they are not part of our lives anymore, we find ourselves always wondering “what if” and I realized today after seeing something on FB that I have been doing just that.  I have not allowed love in because a small part of me kept thinking “what if we […]

Do You Understand?

When people say unconditional love, what the heck does that mean?  Does it mean we have to agree on everything, all the time, that one partner denies all they are to totally pump up the other, with nothing reciprocating?  No, and that is the lesson I was hard headed, have been hard headed to learn. […]

Seeing the Warrior

We all have inner battles and stuff we carry wit us that is not sweet and sugar, can be quite a thorn.  If I am going to unite in sacred companionship, union then I have to know what my inner struggles are, my “demons” are as they say.  I have to also know that the […]

Love is

Love and relationships is a theme of songs, plays etc…and we understand the chemical attraction stuff, scientifically.  However, what is the ultimate love, the one Paul speak of in Scripture, what’s that all about?  In a nutshell, it’s about not trying to mold another to be who you want them to be in every aspect, […]

A Mother’s Love

Mother and child, no matter what age, that relationship is one of many layers and it can be one that is like a tug of war.  The parent. mom knows she has to let go, has to give them wings, but at the same time wants to keep them safe.  The son or daughter at […]

Sometimes It’s Best

I came across a piece of wisdom and so I decided to reflect on it.  The title of this reflection is “Sometimes It’s Best”.

A Love That’s a Gift? Hmm….

Love can be a smooth sail or a stormy sea and the longest connection of the heart, spirit etc… I had was well a stormy sea.  I could say I wish I had never met them and all of that, but no, I can’t say that.  Do I wish I had handled things more maturely […]