Have to Let Go

We all have that one person that though they are not part of our lives anymore, we find ourselves always wondering “what if” and I realized today after seeing something on FB that I have been doing just that.  I have not allowed love in because a small part of me Read more…

Do You Understand?

When people say unconditional love, what the heck does that mean?  Does it mean we have to agree on everything, all the time, that one partner denies all they are to totally pump up the other, with nothing reciprocating?  No, and that is the lesson I was hard headed, have Read more…

Seeing the Warrior

We all have inner battles and stuff we carry wit us that is not sweet and sugar, can be quite a thorn.  If I am going to unite in sacred companionship, union then I have to know what my inner struggles are, my “demons” are as they say.  I have Read more…

Love is

Love and relationships is a theme of songs, plays etc…and we understand the chemical attraction stuff, scientifically.  However, what is the ultimate love, the one Paul speak of in Scripture, what’s that all about?  In a nutshell, it’s about not trying to mold another to be who you want them Read more…

A Mother’s Love

Mother and child, no matter what age, that relationship is one of many layers and it can be one that is like a tug of war.  The parent. mom knows she has to let go, has to give them wings, but at the same time wants to keep them safe. Read more…

Closure or Moving On?

We often think that if only we could see someone one last time, say certain things, air certain grievances etc.., If only…..we could let go, could move forward and leave what no longer makes us happy, truly happy, what no longer inspires us, whatever is toxic to us behind.  Truth Read more…

What Do The Ladies Need?

  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/201806/15-things-women-want-the-men-in-their-lives The last time I gave a link on what men needed from women, and of course these are general needs that psychologists and others have determined each of the sexes needs in a relationship to feel valued etc..  Recently I had someone from my past come knocking and Read more…