Regret could have, should have and all that, well it plays like a loop at times and I have to purposely remind myself to let go, release the regrets, the could have and should have.  I have to make a conscious effort, via prayer, via meditation.  Letting go doesn’t come naturally and I am still in the process of truly letting go.  I am not sure when I will learn to totally let go and give it all up to God.  I am a work in progress, but each day I make greater progress and that is what matters. Amen