During the Toughest Times

Often when people leave our lives, friendships end, relationships end, especially during or right after a rough time, it can be hurtful, but rather that focus on who isn’t around, best to focus on who is around, who sticks with us through thick and thin.  We should be committed to Read more…

The Journey

Every day I wake up and I never know whether I will have  a fairly good day, an okay day or a tough day with the Fibromyalgia etc… and then there is my spiritual journey, my vocational journey, wondering will I be okay in different ways, even financially in the near Read more…

Those We Love Most…

They say that those whom we love and who love us sometimes hurt us the most and reject us, sometimes it’s circumstances, other times, it’s that they are unable to reconcile who they are or their world with our gifts, talents, worldview etc..We spin our wheels, bang our heads against the wall, Read more…

Communication Style #4

The director likes to see results, very results oriented, meat and potatoes guy, streak of independence, and is very direct, also self-disciplined, drawn towards power and authority in general.  They are not guided by emotions, more by thought, unlike the initiator who is guided more by gut instinct and emotions. Read more…

Truth Is..(smiling)

The return of someone still dear to my heart can go sweet or sour and I play a part in that, which direction it goes.  Granted, we hurt other, were not ready for the intensity of the feelings, at least I wasn’t, still carrying too much junk from my childhood.  Read more…

Communication Styles 2 and 3

Initiator and Analzer, what of these two?  The initiator relies  a lot on intuition, on that gut feeling, divine inspiration and such, is animated, quite expressive, very sensitive, and a seeker, spiritual and on different levels and can be quite innovative.  Generally, they will create a congenial work environment, wanting Read more…