Temporary and Permanent

Published by kappello on

People will come into our lives through the virtual world and there a warm and sincere connection.  We  assume this will last forever this friendship, since some deep stuff has been shared about life, what’s going on.  I thought certain friendships both begun offline a lifetime ago and online fit this bill, would last forever, then suddenly the cords were cut.  One of the friendships a Virtual one suddenly gone, no explanation, nothing and it makes me sad, quite sad, but I also have accept though I really don’t want to that after reaching out more than once, they have chosen, with explanation to end this friendship.  I can mourn the loss of it, pray for them always, but like it not I have to except they no longer want to have any friendship.  What will bother me for a long is not knowing, them not having the ability etc.. to say what it is that I have done or they perceive I have done, that caused the friendship to end.  As the poem says some are meant for a season, some for a lifetime and if when you are going through anything heavy in life, or frustrating etc.. and they don’t reach out, that may tell you a lot about whether it was meant to be for a season or a lifetime, that friendship and how deep a level friendship it is.  Going through different things, including another surgery and seeing who reached out and who didn’t made clear those “friends”who were only to be for a season.  This applies sometimes sadly to family as well.

Namaste, Shalom and Amen



Born in New Jersey, August 1965, this Italian-American has always had a great interest in music, particularly the Oldies, Country and Ethnic music, including Irish. For over 10 years Ms. Appello passionately taught ESL to students of varying ages. Grounded if her faith and spirituality, Katherine endured a range of issues, including a great deal of pain, which was finally diagnosed to be associated with Fibromyalgia. The essence and the power of music, of words, allow Katherine to overcome these struggles each and every time. We are all blessed to have Katherine’s strength, wisdom, and words to write “Pray For Me Tonight’